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gardengirl3

Any second time moms to be revising their family/visitor policy from last time?  I found visitors to be very distracting and not restful for me at all...and it didn't help while struggling to learn how to breastfeed to be worrying about when people were going to show up next.  Next time I feel like telling people we're not up to having a lot of visitors and just limit it to grandparents.  Is this rude?

(I'm also not really a fan of letting kids hold LO, esp since our nieces seem to ALWAYS be sick with something or other.)   Not trying to be rude, but I feel like it's OUR baby, not a toy or a trophy to be passed around, kwim?

Opinions?  TIA