Stupid Question

rfrazier611

This is a REALLY stupid, unimportant question, to which there is no right or wrong answer, but I'd like to know what you all are doing.

Before getting pregnant, I always held my abs in so my stomach was flat.  If I didn't, I could sport a pretty impressive bump, especially after a good meal.  Now that I am pregnant and showing a little, I keep flip flopping between holding it in out of habit and letting it fly.  Now, even when I hold it in I show, but when I let it go, I SHOW, and probably by at least a few extra weeks (I am 17w 5d).  I feel a little guilty, like I'm cheating or something, when I just let er rip.  I imagine that once I become tremendous in a few months holding anything in in any form will be impossible and I won't have to agonize over something so dumb.

 What do you guys do?