NBR - How often do you give up the goods?

TwiMom

Well I guess it is a little baby related because I sort of feel like we never got back what we had before DD arrived!  And it's come to my attention recently that my DH feels really neglected and useless so I want to fix that right away!  So I'm asking those of you with healthy sex lives...how often do you do it?  Any tips for spicing things up?  I saw an idea online...giving him beads that he can put out in a little dish next to the bed any time he wants it to take the pressure off of asking for it and possibly getting rejected...thoughts?  Do you do anything similar?  Thanks ladies!