Ok, FTM question here. I've been checking out playards/pack n plays that have bassinets, changing tables, and something called a "napper" built into them. The idea sounds great, but for a while I thought the "napper" and bassinet were the same thing. They ARE different, correct? Also, is the napper actually safe? I know newborns aren't particularly mobile, but those nappers look REALLY shallow and easily exited by some earnest wiggling. Looking at pictures, the bassinet part appears to be something of a shelf under the changing table and napper. Can one put the baby in the bassinet and leave the changing table part in place? Who has used these? Help!!