I have so many fears but I thought I would just post about the top 2! :-) My husband and I are thinking of starting to TTC....that in itself brings up anxiety for both of us since we are in our 30s and a bit set in our lifestyle now. (My head fills with: Will we still have fun? Will we start to hate each other? Will we go broke?) We set a timeline for ourselves and finally feel ready to give it a shot.
The biggest problem is me though. I cannot get over this debilitiating fear of being pregnant and actually having to go through a delivery. I know it sounds crazy since so many people have given birth in the world and they even go back to do it more times! I don't think that I will be able to deal with so much pain. My friends who are moms have shared their stories with me and it solidified how horrible I thought it was. The thoughts fill me with this crazy anxiety / like a panic attack about to start. My fear is so strong that I am considering not having children or maybe discussing a C-section with my dr if I do get pregnant.
Is this normal? Is there any hope to get over this?