My friend and her son (2.5yrs) came over today, we had a multi-family garage sale.. well I made the kids lunch, she didnt bring any food for her son (no big deal)...BUT it really bothers me that she noticed and said something to me about how her son was making a really big mess and she didnt pick one thing up. No even his bowl... she left everything for me to clean, even the all the toys her son got out-i just dont get it