any tips?

spartan2005

we have DD #1's 3 year wellness apt tomorrow. For weeks now, anytime i've brought up going to the docotor she gets worked up and says she's not going.  we got a book from the library and read about going to the doctor, talked about what would happen, etc.  she still does not want to go.  when i made the apt i took the 11:00 time thinking i could talk it up as a fun outing.  i thought we'd go out to lunch afterwards and make it a fun girl time.  but again all indicators are telling me it's going to be a struggle.   she's really only been to the doctor one time, other than for wellness check-ups, so i have no idea how/why she's anxious about it.  (well actually, my guess is it has to do with her being shy and not liking the doctor and nurses getting close to her).