To find out or not...

traceyt07

DH and I are pregnant with DC #2.  With DS we were team green and we loved the surprise.  With this one, however, we're having a hard time deciding whether to find out the gender or not.  I feel like I'm not as "connected" to this pregnancy because I'm so busy working and chasing our son. This pregnancy is absolutely flying by.  DH suggested that finding out the gender may help me feel closer to this pregnancy.  I'm not sure... I loved the delivery room surprise and hearing my husband say, "it's a boy!" after all that hard work.  Opinions anyone?  What would you do?  For mommies who have found out the gender, do you think it made you feel more "connected" to the baby?