My DH leaves for work usually long before the kids are up. In addition, he often doesn't get home until late.
So what do you do / what would you do if it is your DC's birthday, or a holiday like Valentine's day - do you wait to give them gifts? Shoot for another day?
For instance, DD is having a birthday party on Sunday, but her birthday is Tuesday.. when would you do your own little celebration knowing that DH is pretty busy?