Arraignment hearing was today.....

Crystal318

Regarding our Domestic Violence dispute which took place on Christmas. He plead "not guilty" and asked for a jury trial. Then blamed me for the fact that we have to be spending all this money on attorneys and have all these court dates, etc.

On another note, I think that he is realizing that he is losing his control over me and I think it is freaking him out. But it also scares me at the same time because I know that this is the most critical period. I know that when the addict/maniputlator/abuser starts to feel out of control they freak out. I am scared that he will start using LO as his means as control over me even more than he already has because he knows as far as WE (he and I) are concerned, he cannot control me anymore.  How did you guys handle this aspect of it?