I'm due any day now, and I'm nervous cuz my in-laws are coming to visit in about 10 days. They live far away so they planned the trip a while ago. I'm excited to have them come and visit, but I really don't want them holding the baby too much. My father-in-law smokes, and I know neither of them are up to date on vaccines.
My parents on the other hand made sure to get their flu shots etc. Am I being a paranoid and selfish FTM? How much do you let grandparents hold newborns?