1st time Mom question/poll & vent

taral527

Hi Ladies,

 My husband thinks it's EASY to be a 1st time Mom and care for a nb/infant, my lo is almost 12 weeks and yes it's gotten much easier, after developing a routien and getting the hang of things, although it is still a lot of work. He has made comments like I just stay home and do nothing all day because he knows that when he was home for 5 days its wasnt much work (of course it wouldnt be when Im here to help too) and that I am the only woman that has ever 'complained" about having to take care of a child, btw me complaining is saying Im tired or the baby was fussy today or my nipples hurt from pumping...general comments are now complaints...

anyway, Id like to show him this post and would apprecite your honesty --- is being a 1st time Mom in the first few months EASY for you?

TIA!