I can't decide, I have a friend who is organizing a 3 day cruise for girls only in Jan. No kids, no DHs! The cruise itself will be around $240, but then I would need airfair. DH didn't hasitate saying yeas when I asked if I should go. But I am not sure if I can stand to leave the kids for that long, and I feel guilty spending the money. Plus my passport is in my maiden so it isn't good anymore, I would need to get an enhanced license (I think) to visit the Bahamas. My kids are a hand full, I worry about leaving them even though I could really use a break! The friend organizing it has FIVE kids of her own including her youngest who just turned one and 5 yr old twins. Other than her, I wouldn't know anyone else and the accomodations may be tight. Would you go?