need help and understanding..

Karalynwood

Last night my husband found out that his 21 year old brother is pregnant with his 18 year old girlfriend.  She has no license, no job, and he is still in school and working.  The kicker is here I am married, happy, got pregnant because we planned it and now the girl is due the same time as me.  I am not a selfish person at all and give to everyone and is of course understand that I am sure this was an accident.  I am still upset considering this is our first baby and I feel as though my in laws won't be around now as much as they would have been.  I don't know what to think and am very upset.  what do you all think?  Thank you!