What did your X plan to do with his life before everything went awry?
STBXH planned to be an elementary teacher and later go back to school to get his master's degree to be a principal. He also wanted to be a very successful high school baseball coach. Eventually he would have probably been a stay at home dad to our 3 or 4 kids.
Now, after 4 DUI's, several stints in rehab, and various other charges, he's unemployed, has no driver's license, he's broke, and sleeps on an air mattress in his parent's basement. He just got the alcohol monitoring bracelet off that he's had on for the past year and I'm almost certain he's drinking already.