How did you leave?

kiley&matt

I've mostly just been a lurker on this board for a long time, but I have now reached my limit with my emotionally abusive husband and am finally ready to start my life over without him.  We have a 4 month old son, and right now I SAH with him.  I still have a job, but I'm on extended leave because we can't afford daycare and there is no way I can work and take care of DS at the same time.  There's really no way I'll have a chance to save up any money - my husband has sunk us pretty deep into debt and I'm just not sure how to proceed. 

For those of you who have been in a similar situation, how did you finally do it?  What helped you get through?  Thanks in advance, I just need some support and guidance.