I was dreading seeing him but thankfully the Gods intervened!! His car broke down on the way so I got there and he participated by phone. My support was lessened as I knew it would be since he had found a job with lower income.
In PA its basically you make this, he makes this and that's it. They don't really care that he lost his job due to his fault and could be making more. It's just cut and dry numbers. I just didn't want to see him.