Is this unreasonable?

cynnnabun

My ex and I never went to court or anything. We just came up with a deal that works for us, and for 5 years, it's worked.

He gets her Mon, Tues,Fri after school. Weekends depend on him. If he calls and wants to see her and we don't have plans, she goes. Occasionally she spends the night on a Friday night or something.

He asked if she could sleep over 2x this week, during the week. I said no, it's a school night. (She doesn't go to school until noon.)

He's been flipping out in texts for days now telling me that's ridiculous that he can bring her home in the morning before school, whatever whatever.

IDC what time she goes to school, I don't see why she needs to sleep over on a school night. I've never said no to a weekend sleep over. That's what weekends are for.

IDK what the "norm" or standard is. This is why sometimes I wish we had gone to court. Is it unreasonable that I don't think she should sleep over on school nights?