2 weeks!

smithpaint

We are leaving to meet our (hopefully) future son in 2 weeks.  Oh my - I am so nervous, excited, etc. 

 For those of you who have adopted how did your first visit go?  I know he may be scared of us.  He doesn't speak English and can't see - so I'm trying to keep my expectations low.  I'm hoping he'll let us hold him and warm up to us over the weeks that we're there. 

Did you feel an instant connection of any kind or did it take a long time to bond with your child?  For those of you who adopted kids older than 1 or 2 did it take a long time for your child to become attached to you?