How big is too big?

jacqgomar

My husband and I are planning our own baby shower, I know it can be seen as tacky but my sister does not want to do it...she is anti family. My close friends are mostly hot messes that don't really do know how to act like adults, so we are our own. My husband and morther in law came up with a list of about 100 people to invite, add the people I would like to invite we ended up with a list of about 140 people. We have been married for almost 8 years and this will be our first child so a lot of people have been waiting sometime to celebrate this event with us. I'm just worried its gonna be too big, it feels like we are planning our wedding all over again...any suggestions?