Multiple family members wanting to throw shower...what to do?

amy11401

A couple of months ago I husband asked if I wanted to know anything about my shower...such as the date, planning etc and he starting talking about the possible guest list.  I said I was fine to be surprised.  We did briefly talk about the possible guest list.  He never did tell me who was planning the shower but I assume it is his sister.  Anyway I did mention that whoever was planning should probably contact my mom so that my side did not plan a shower too.  Well today my mom called and said that she and my aunt wanted to throw me a shower and to give her some dates.  I mentioned that DH had already mentioned that a family member had already planned on throwing a shower but again she reitterated that they wanted to throw one.  I asked DH if he had mentioned to them about contacting my mom and he said that they probably had not began to formally plan it yet.  So now I don't know what to do.  I really just want to stay out of the whole situation. Just an FYI I am due September 25.