Disapointed

Km672

We were planning our DE/DS cycle this summer, but we just backed out because we lost trust in our egg donor.

We have waited literally a month for contracts to be done and paperwork from our donor to be completed. I emailed the coordinator to tell her I was getting concerned. She admitted she was too because her calls to the donor the previous week were not returned.

I spoke with my husband and we decided we are no longer comfortable with this donor. We have decided we are going to choose a new, but experienced donor in order to try to avoid a repeat of this. I understand that both inexperienced and experienced donors can both have second thoughts or not complete their testing in a timely manner, but we feel if a donor has already been through this process, at least she knows what she's in for.

 This was the first cycle I truly BELIEVED would work for us. I feel like I was just slapped in the face with the reminder that there are absolutely no guarantees in this process and this really might never work.