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tracy41

My mom wanted to plan a meet the baby party for her extended family because I declined her suggestion of a shower. Except she never planned it. Baby is now over 3 months and mom's big 60th party is coming up anyway. But she keeps mentioning needing to schedule the luncheon. Is it reasonable to shut her down because 1. meet the 6 month old doesn't have quite the same ring to it, and 2. he'll be at her birthday party anyway and everyone can meet him there? Seriously though, at what point is it too late to have a meet the baby party?