Foster Care /FTP

bosoxy

I originally posted this on the baby shower board and it was suggested that I come here and ask as well.

So my friend and her H are becoming foster parents.  They are unable to have their own children so they are starting from scratch.  Does anyone have any ideas or etiquette on a shower or other type of event in this situation?  They aren't asking for one.  I was just curious if anyone knew of anything for an event like this or if it is even okay to do something like this.  They do plan to adopt from the foster care system, but waiting to throw them a shower when they adopt seems odd since they would have all the stuff they need by then.