By the May 13 board.
Just received this FB invite from my aunt-in-law for her daughter-in-law who I have never met. I was tagged in the image. So I did not even get the physical invite. Also, this is their third kid, the mom is 23.
If you can't read the bottom it says:
A list of items still needed for Max and Mom is attached (No gift required to attend) If getting gifts please tell us what with RSVP so we can purchase the rest in June.