I'm quitting at the end of May! He tried to get me to agree to a leave of absence instead, but I told him that wouldn't be fair to them, since I don't see myself coming back. He agreed to write me a letter of reference for when I start looking for my next job after we relocate in 2015.
Phase One complete! Next up: Being a stay-at-home mom, refinalizing the boys' adoptions in NJ, looking for our dream home, and finding a job for when we relocate. I can't wait!