VBAC vs. Csection for second child?

calatina416

I'm so confused, this is such a huge decision and I can't seem to make up my mind! My first daughter was about 30 hours of labor and i ended up needing an emergency csection. I had dilated to 7 and then started regressing. Im pretty small narrow hips but not tiny, and my baby was 9 lbs. I'm ready to schedule a c section because Im afriad of the 1 chance of rupture but I know every pregnancy is different so I feel like I'm "giving up" too easily. What if this labor and delivery were going to be way different this time around? Any experienced or knowledgeable mommies with help or advice? I need to decide asap and tell my dr. Baby will be here in 8 short weeks!!