we.just went to DD's friend's party and his mother just throws the type of party (every year) that just makes me feel inadequate. Im trying to make goodie bags for DD's party and Im torn. so far i have a bouncy ball, kazoo, pencil, notepad and glow bracelet, and instead of a bag, i bought little buckets with sandcastle bottoms. it still seems empty. im thinking goldfish or teddy grahams, maybe a little bag of m&ms and a lolly pop. is that too much? im not out to compete wwith the other mom, but i just cant help it.