Need a guy's imput

ckwats33

I was recently talking with my husband and he said he is worried that he will become a third wheel once baby is born.  I know that having a baby is always a stress on a relationship so I knew it was coming in a way.  However he brought up the fact that neither of us really know what dads do with a newborn (his dad left when he was a baby and mine thought that since my mom wanted kids that it was all on her).  I will be breastfeeding and he wants me to pump regularly so that he can bottle feed whenever he feels like it, whereas I was planning to pump only when it is necessary. He feels like he is just going to be left out of the whole thing.  I guess my point is this...

Do you have any suggestions on ways H can spend time with DS so that he feels he is a part of things?