Wife upset about failed birth plan

tmp-9094017

My wife and I had a baby a little over 6 months ago and there is still alot of disappointment and anger as to the failure of my wife's birth plan.  I know that i was not as active as i should have been during the birth process and she often times will take any opportunity to tell me that she feels that the failure was my fault.  How do I help her to be ok with herself and the beautiful baby that we had as a result.  Her feelings of failure are getting more and more severe despite the time passing and now her only goal is to get pregnant again so she can "fix it".  What advice does anybody have on how to talk with her?

 

Struggling Dad