baby shower at restaurant, who pays?

msyoon

if a baby shower is being held at a restaurant, do the guests pay for themselves and host cover the MTB? or is it expected that the guests are all covered by the hosts?

 

I personally think it's tacky when I'm invited to a shower (baby or wedding) and expected to pay for my own meal but If it's a big party, i understand it can be expensive for the host to cover all the costs as well.