Any advice? I'm completely stunned and a mess and I don't want to do anything to make it worse for her.
TIA
Edited to revise. I didn't want to delete my original post because I truly appreciate all of the advice, condolences, and thoughts from the ladies who responded. However, I did edit the post because it was never my intention to make anybody nervous or offend a single person. If I did, I apologize sincerely. Thank you all for your words and support.