Episiotomy vs. tearing

lsleeper22

Hi ladies!  Happy Saturday.  I hope you're all enjoying your weekend.

I have read a lot about how episiotomies are not done as regularly now and how a natural tear supposedly heals much better.  However, I've also had a few very strong opinions (asked for or not) from friends and family supporting an episiotomy rather than a tear.

Of course this is another one of those tough decisions that depends very much on the specific situation and individual, but any experiences you care share regarding either would be greatly appreciated.  I'm definitely on course to have a big baby (already measuring 7.2lbs @ 35 weeks-supposedly ), so I'm just looking for as much information as possible and would love to hear your first hand experiences and opinions. 

TIA!   

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