FMLA gripes

myshaybaby

I applied for FMLA so I wouldn't have to worry about using any of my 5 call outs for the year-oh yes, we get 5 for an entire year! Anyway, I was told today that since IVF is considered an elective procedure, and since we have MFI and there is nothing wrong with me, that I don't qualify. The woman on the phone said, "Well, there isn't a problem with you getting pregnant, it's a problem with your husband." I asked her if they suggest I get a new husband? How frustrating.

Now that I'm pregnant, I was able to submit a new claim, but still I find it infuriating that this is considered "elective." I'm sorry, but last time I checked, it's elective to BD and get pregnant, infertile or not! There is something seriously wrong with our country!

Thanks for listening