Weird feelings about IF. Anyone else?

kellyrn9956

So, for three years I've been the "infertile girl". I am having trouble wrapping my head around the fact that I will be called "mom" soon. Almost to the point where I am somewhat "grieving" the IF portion of my life. Yes, shots and u/s and appointments suck, but it's just what we DID for years. It's like I am going to have to find a new focus, and it's hard to believe that that focus will be a child.

Anyone else feel like their identity is changing? I mean, this is a GREAT change in our lives, but a change nonetheless.