Question about our um....lady bits....after baby.

letzgoracing81

I think this is primarily a question for those who are STM or TTMs.  I am having my first one and truly am curious about the 'damage' he may do while I am giving birth.  Does everything go back to how it was before?  Did doing kegel exercises help?

I asked my sisters....but they were not much help.    My one sister looked at me like I was being selfish and pointless by asking such a stupid question.  My other sister just shrugged and said her lady parts must have gone back to the same because her husband has never complained.

Ok....so I DO feel vain and selfish to even be worrying about this. But....I have no one else to ask.  I love my son SO MUCH--and I have done everything during this pregnancy to make him my first priority....to take care of my body-which takes care of him.

BUT I KNOW I cannot be the only FTM who has worried about this.