Gender Reveal Party Controversy

RealityJunkie

I've noticed that a lot of people on TB generally dislike the idea of gender reveal parties. I don't plan on having one, but I thought it would be fun to have the grandparents over for dinner and cut a cake to find blue or pink inside since they won't be at the ultrasound and it would be a fun surprise element for them. For people that have large parties for this, I could care less either way. It's not something I would do, but I don't frown upon those that wish to do it.

Just wondering the reasoning behind a lot of people thinking its awful or tacky? Always interested in differing opinions...