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xtineelaine

I have made the decision to give the baby my last name. The father and I get along sometimes, but mostly we don't. He is very upset that I will not be giving the baby his last name and does not see my reasoning behind it, he even went as far as calling me a "f-ing selfish retard". His sister and grandmother agree with me in giving the baby my last name. He has been making some pretty poor choices as of lately and I am not sure of his commitment in the long run. So far he is a lot of talk and no action (like getting a better job and cleaning up his life). So to sum it up the reason for my post is, have any of you made this decision? what was the father's reaction? I don't want to be selfish I just think it is right for me AND the baby!