Was it too much to hope that my family would want to celebrate...

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DH and I chose not to get married; so I've not had a wedding, a bridal shower or anything else.  We are now expecting our first (and only) child.  Since there's never really been a milestone to celebrate in my life (my sister had a wedding, and baby, my brother has had 2 weddings), I just thought my family might jump at the opportunity to celebrate this with me.  I'm not the type of person that really wanted a shower anyways, but was just caught off guard when they flat out told me that they don't want to host one.

Oh well, my DH's family cares so much, they are having 2 showers for me.  One of the hosts has offered to include my family, but I'm just not sure I want to at this point.  Nothing spiteful or anything, they just don't really fit in with the rest of the guests at this shower.