my baby boy will be a month old on the 14th and his dad hasnt even tried to come see him yet. he said that he was going to be a good dad but he hasnt even called to see how our baby is doing. i dont know if i shouldcall and offer for him to come over and see our baby???like do you think maybe hes just too shy to come see our baby on his own??? i just dont get why he would say he would be there for him but not come see him for a month after hes born