question for the dads from a mom...

mommacakes4u

I have a question for you dads and dads to be.

We are pregnant with baby #3, the plan was for me to have my tubes tied during the c-section. However the more i research it and talk to people about it the more i am getting concerned and having second thoughts. I have tried to talk to my husband about having the big V instead...but he says he doesnt want anyone cutting his stuff off. I have tried to explain to him the pros and cons of each situation. its like he wont even listen to me when i try to talk to him about it. We even talked about this before deciding to have baby #3. he refused then also so i had an IUD put in. Please share you thoughts ,concerns and experience with either or both. thanks!!