I have had SEVERAL people ask me
"So where are the babies during the day? Are your parents watching them?"
"No, they are at day care"
"Ohhhhhh.... Don't you worry about them?" (or something similar.) or "Oh, but they are so little!"
Seriously, I feel like people act like its a bad choice to send them to day care. We have NO other choice at this point. My parents aren't around, his still work and private help would cost a fortune. I am starting to feel guilty/paranoid