So my STB ex-husband spoke to my sister a couple months ago a couple days before I did. When I spoke to him he told me specifically not to call him. He told me he would call me. Since then I have not heard from him. When he spoke to my sister, he apparently told her that he did not want to send money for the kids because I would spend it on myself. I know he's offended that I requested supervised visitation for verbal and emotional abuse and neglect. My question is, should I call him? It's going on 2 months since the last time he talked to the kids, and and before that was another month and a half. Should I bother trying to get in touch with him? My daughter always has problems after talking to him, and I want to prevent that.