Achy lower back (all the time) With occasional abdominal cramps

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Nothing seems to be putting my mind at ease about this. I am 5 weeks exactly today and have had a very persistent lower achy back. I will occasionally have spasms in my abdomen if I cough or something but not a lot. I am so fearful of another miscarriage. All the dr will tell me is that "it could be normal." I don't know if I should be excited about this pregnancy or not wish my dr would just do a sonogram.