Letting it happen

mlrafiki

Hey folks, I'm new (or rather, this is my second attempt to post here after a disastrous first attempt two years ago when some ladies jumped all over my case for asking about C-sections), and just want to check:

Hubby and I have decided we're ready to have kids, but hardcore TTC seems really stressful, so we've taken the initial perspective of "We'll just go off BC, go on with our lives as we normally do for now, and hope something happens."  Like many of you, I have more than enough sources of stress without having to introduce a fertility freakout JUST yet (full disclosure: I'm 28).

I'm looking for other ladies who have tried or are trying this sort of not-trying method (haha), just to connect and chat.  Advice is welcome! (I expect to see at least a few "Hey! At least get yourself onto prenatal vitamins, woman!" messages.)