I know I am ready... is he?

Kathryn Grice

I have been with my husband for 8 years and we have been married for five. We have always talked about having children. Three years ago we mutually decided that I would go off birth control. Fast forward to present day, we still have not conceived and as it turns out we most likely will not be able to conceive without IUF or possible IVF (we found this out in January). What is making this process even more painful is every month or so my husband starts getting cold feet. Quite frankly is scares the hell out of me. I want a baby more than anything in the world. I don't understand his behavior. We had an appointment to get everything set up for IUF in several weeks and the yesterday he asked if I was sure I wanted to have a baby now?!?!? I don't know what to do