can i vent for a moment

ljanette85

i love my mil, she is great, but never breastfed or wanted to. whenever feeding comes up she always has some comment about how i wont last long because i will "want my life back" or "cant drink" i usually laugh it off but really its annoying! formula fed or breastfed, this so called "life" that i want back is gone... im not going bar hopping with an infant at home. i guess its just so odd to me that she thinks i would put my ability to drink and go out over what my baby needs   people and their comments/ advice dont usually get to me... but for some reason this does get under my skin. thank goodness i have lots of other support when it comes to feeding this baby! i already warned them that when they come to visit after the baby is born there may be boobs out, so leave the modesty at the door!