C-section vs VDelivery?

Pattycakes3

I always figured I'd try to avoid a c-section if possible, not being cut open sounded better than the alternative. However, the more I hear about what happens during the aftermath/healing/time it takes to be regular down there...I'm terrified! Does anyone have info-advice to weigh in? This may seem silly, but is it really 3 mo until you can have sex again?