I'm meeting a lawyer for the first time tomorrow. What should I expect. The divorce is pretty cut and dry since there is no debt, or shared property to split. The only BIG thing is custody of the kids. STBXH has mental health issues that are getting him discharged from the Army so he's not someone i want around the boys undmedicated which he says he won't be medicated if we aren't married. Guess I'm jsut really nervous and not sure what to expect.