So my BIL was being silly and telling me how he wants nieces and nephews. I love his excitement about it, and he knows that we are trying. Well I opened up and told him it's been 11 months and his face said it all. He even asked if I should go in for fertility testing. I said not yet, since a few months we had really shitty timing and I think we're going to wait a bit longer to go for any kind of testing. But, I love that he's concerned and he was very kind about it. It felt really good to open up to someone IRL.